May 19, 2009
Trash the dirt
A former student from Walt Whitman high school was arrested on Wednesday after posting death threats on the teen gossip website, peoplesdirt.com. The student created a poll listing the names of students and posed the question, "Who would you like to kill?"
This arrest really demonstrates how scary and disgusting gossip websites like peoplesdirt.com can be. As a usual lover of the wonderful World Wide Web, it horrifies me that websites like this one even exist. Other websites like juicycampus.com, which was recently shut down because of financial troubles, and dontdatehimgirl.com simply feed off of cowardice and bitterness.
Peoplesdirt.com's popularity has rapidly spread through Montgomery County schools, including Blair. Students who visit the website can see hundreds of posts that insult, degrade and embarrass classmates and teachers. It's as easy as picking the state, county and high school of whomever you want to victimize. Posters are able to hide behind anonymous usernames and spew hatred and lies for the whole world to see at the click of a button.
As I made the decision to write this blog, my instant fear was that I would subject myself to becoming victimized on this website. That fear, though, subsided as I realized that I would not hide behind a cheesy nickname to voice my opinion.
Yes, gossip is an unfortunately integral part of our society but its spread from simple person-to-person communication to person-to-world contact via the internet is what is so alarming. Not only can the victim of the attacks view the hurtful posting, but so can friends, family, colleges and future employers. This can be extraordinarily damaging to someone's reputation and is a form of cyber bullying that cannot be ignored.
I'm all for freedom of speech when it is not slanderous, but posters on peoplesdirt.com have the ability to say whatever they want about someone and not suffer the consequences. While some of what is said on the site might be true, it is easy to discern that some of what is said is incorrect and hurtful.
It's impossible to think that people will stop finding some reason to hate each other, but it is not unreasonable to hope that people will stop being so blatantly mean. We can only hope teenagers will stop hiding behind anonymous façades to take out anger and frustration and will keep their lies and dirt to themselves.
This arrest really demonstrates how scary and disgusting gossip websites like peoplesdirt.com can be. As a usual lover of the wonderful World Wide Web, it horrifies me that websites like this one even exist. Other websites like juicycampus.com, which was recently shut down because of financial troubles, and dontdatehimgirl.com simply feed off of cowardice and bitterness.
Peoplesdirt.com's popularity has rapidly spread through Montgomery County schools, including Blair. Students who visit the website can see hundreds of posts that insult, degrade and embarrass classmates and teachers. It's as easy as picking the state, county and high school of whomever you want to victimize. Posters are able to hide behind anonymous usernames and spew hatred and lies for the whole world to see at the click of a button.
As I made the decision to write this blog, my instant fear was that I would subject myself to becoming victimized on this website. That fear, though, subsided as I realized that I would not hide behind a cheesy nickname to voice my opinion.
Yes, gossip is an unfortunately integral part of our society but its spread from simple person-to-person communication to person-to-world contact via the internet is what is so alarming. Not only can the victim of the attacks view the hurtful posting, but so can friends, family, colleges and future employers. This can be extraordinarily damaging to someone's reputation and is a form of cyber bullying that cannot be ignored.
I'm all for freedom of speech when it is not slanderous, but posters on peoplesdirt.com have the ability to say whatever they want about someone and not suffer the consequences. While some of what is said on the site might be true, it is easy to discern that some of what is said is incorrect and hurtful.
It's impossible to think that people will stop finding some reason to hate each other, but it is not unreasonable to hope that people will stop being so blatantly mean. We can only hope teenagers will stop hiding behind anonymous façades to take out anger and frustration and will keep their lies and dirt to themselves.
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How many students do you all think are active on that website? Probably no more than 500, and even that's being generous. How many parents, teachers, future employers (why would they be on that website in the first place?), etc do you think will take information on that site as the almighty truth? None. Have you read the posts on the forum? It is all unintelligible drivel that anyone with a right mind would not take seriously.
In addition, the great thing about the internet is that YOU get to choose what you want to see/hear. If you don't want to hear the bad things said about you, you don't have to. If you read it anyway, it's your fault f Unfortunately, you can't control what other people read about you. However, as I said before, few of them take such slander seriously, and those who do are idiots.
My point is that although the information is easy to access, no one reads it because they probably don't know about it. Those who do read it (for whatever reason) probably don't take it seriously. The only people who would take it seriously are the people who would gossip anyway.
Remember: DON'T TAKE IT SERIOUSLY - if you don't mind, it doesn't matter. Instead of trying to regulate free speech, JUST IGNORE IT. I can't stress this enough. The information on those sites is inconsequential. It doesn't matter. No one reads it. No one cares.