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Dec. 30, 2013

To be or not to be? That is the black dilemma

by Abel Chanyalew, Online Sports Editor
Whenever I introduce myself for the first time, the conversation quickly becomes one where I have to justify my identity. Generally, the conversation goes as follows:

Stranger: "Where are you from?"

Me (seeing where this is headed and not amused): "Iím American."

Stranger: "No, where are you really from?"

Me (refusing to give in): "Well, my parents are from Ethiopia."

Stranger: "OH, so youíre African."

Me: "No. Iím Black."

From then on, the conversation quickly heads down a road that has become quite tiring to traverse. Much of the time, I am sucked into a discussion where Iím labeled as "African" or strictly "Ethiopian" for what I can only guess is a myriad of reasons.

Before I begin, itís important to clarify that this issue of black identification (or misidentification) is one that I feel mainly permeates within the group of young black males. Certainly, it wouldnít be a stretch to say that young black men are no strangers to having their ďblacknessĒ estimated and examined by others. And while black women may be subjected to this scrutiny as well, I would venture to guess that it has not reached the level that it has for men.

But what exactly is black? It isnít just epitomized by the rubber stamp black male that is depicted in the American narrative. Of course, it is not purely a symbolic label, as it has literal, technical definitions as well. So before I address the various levels of ignorance spewed in order to define "blackness," let me first give the term some brief, factual context.

The naming and renaming of blacks in America has gone on for a long time, and the black community is unique in that it has been able to play a main role in its own redefinition. The word "black" became popular in the late 1960s as the black power movement gained success. During that time period, it stood for racial pride and power. It defined and encompassed a group of people without discriminating and dividing from within.
Is this the look of your typical black male? Courtesy of
Is this the look of your typical black male?

Never during this movement were African-Americans excluded for not being black enough. Never were they judged with a criterion of arbitrary and inexplicable standards. And this is where I fast forward to our current society. Nowadays, new gauges have been instituted to measure oneís "blackness," and it is a burden mainly for black males in this culture. Apparently, a person is black only if they subscribe to the well-documented stereotypes that have shrouded black people in America for years.

The stereotypical young black male in todayís America is no secret. Heís the one whose pants are slipping even though heís got a belt on. Heís the young man walking around with his headphones blasting, regardless of his surroundings. Heís the guy thatís "too cool for school" and doesnít try too hard, in fear of being labeled a "nerd." Society is telling us that this is the benchmark for being black.

But wait -- donít forget about the shoe game. Youíre not complete without an endless collection of footwear. And make sure to refrain from being well-spoken and articulate. You must only speak in the most current slang at all times. Of course, itís not all societyís fault. A lot of these ideas are self-perpetuated by the black community, and I know that hip hop culture, a pillar of black culture in many ways, has a lot to do with it.

By no means am I attacking hip hop. However, rap music, and hip hop in general, exudes a persona that is used to characterize all black men. Itís a culture that emphasizes being overly cool and is deathly afraid of being seen as "soft." As a result, a thug image has been placed upon blacks, and unless this persona is displayed all the time, an individual will never fit in.

Now I donít want to be likened to the "old heads" in the black community who are known for complaining about "this generation." Iím no hypercritic; I do some of the stereotypical things I mentioned earlier. And in many ways, some of these stereotypes are important in defining black culture. Hip hop always has and always will play a leading role in black society. The black vernacular can be and is an essential part of the black way of life. Yet in the end, the numerous stereotypes do not accurately encompass all that black culture is.
The outfit isn't complete without a pair of sagging pants. Courtesy of
The outfit isn't complete without a pair of sagging pants.

In our current society, itís become cool to be black, or at least act as such. People of all races and ethnicities listen to hip hop music, use the slang, etc. But, apparently, this has also given everyone the right to make judgments about who is black and who is not. There seems to be a "black litmus test" that weíre all supposed to be measured by. In my case, maybe itís because I donít live "around the way." Or maybe itís because I choose to use proper English from time to time. Maybe itís a more intellectual reason. Is it because I know where in Africa my ancestors were from (unlike many black folks in this country)? Or is it because Ethiopians never had to suffer through American slavery? Maybe itís all of the above.

Regardless, the clichťd black male I illustrated earlier cannot be the sole standard. Like I said, it definitely does encompass a lot of the aforementioned characteristics, but there are also more complex reasons that I canít fully explain. Nevertheless, I do know for sure that being black cannot and should not ever be based purely on Americaís longstanding stereotype of young black men.

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